What IS minimalism?
Whenever I tell someone I’m a minimalist, they look at me like I just told them I’m waiting for a comet to return me to the motherland.
Defining minimalism is a bit difficult, as it’s more a lifestyle than personality trait.
However, we see minimalism in terms of meaningfulness. We don’t need stuff to make us happy or fulfill unmet desires.
We want to live intentionally, and we feel like minimalism helps us do that. We focus more on experiences, meaningful work, and people than we do on things.
At the same time, it doesn’t mean we live in isolation without electricity. We still buy things. We just try to be extremely intentional when we do so. We’re always asking – “Is this something I need?” and “Is this the best tool for what I’m trying to do?”
Minimalism is the opposite of consumerism and the violent grasp of living intentionally.
Why does minimalism allow you to “pursue your passions”?
This is a two-fold answer that still leaves more unsaid than said. However, minimalism helps us do what we’re doing in two ways:
1) We don’t overspend. Once we realized that we could be sustained on very little, it meant we don’t need six-figure jobs to support our lifestyle. That means we can consider work we find meaningful and fulfilling first, and let the money thing work itself out.
2) We invest saved money into businesses, ideas, and dreams. Sometimes this is direct – we save more and therefore have more money to spend on the tools we need. And sometimes it’s indirect – we don’t need a lot of money, so we have jobs that require less time, which translates into spending more time on things we care about doing.
In short, something is always going to take your time and money. And if we aren’t living intentionally, we end up spending our time and money on things we don’t really care about.
Why do minimalists own so few things?
Although some minimalists have goals of owning “X” amount of things, we’re not really like that. We just like to have only what we find necessary.
Sure, we sometimes buy something we don’t need. But we’ve also become much more adept at realizing when this happens and quickly try to sell it or give it away.
For a minimalist, it’s just as easy to ask the question “why do people own so many things?” To us, things are an obligation and a weight. If they aren’t worth it, we don’t keep it.
Do you really save money being a minimalist? How?
We have saved money in three important ways:
1) We spend less buying things.
2) Spend less maintaining things. Everything we own is a choice to not have the money it is worth (resell value). If we could sell something and we decide to keep it, we view ownership as a cost of keeping that thing. If the cost outweights the benefit, we get rid of it. Secondly, things break, wear down, and just lose value. That costs us money, too. Owning fewer things means we have less maintenance/ownership costs.
3) We buy higher quality items. Yes, we buy things and we’re usually the people with the $100 coat instead of the $50 one. Say what you will, but we buy based on value. If we don’t love something, we don’t buy it. Since I only have one pair of jeans, I only buy jeans that I’m happy wearing every day. It might be more upfront, but I know which jeans wear out quickly (and, as a side benefit, I keep my jeans until they wear out – something I never did before).
How do you get rid of things?
We are still getting rid of things, but it definitely starts with a conscious decision to live differently.
I’d love to overcomplicate this and give you a decluttering plan and all these other things to “help” people get rid of things, but that never really worked for me.
You know how to get rid of things, what you’re really asking is “why should I get rid of things?”
And in a funny way, the times I’ve found most beneficial are when I’ve started out being content with where I am at. I’ve found that when I’m secure in myself, I realize that I really don’t need all this crap to make me happy. When I go into a decluttering session with that mindset, it’s a beautiful dance of liberation and reaffirmation.
Once you answer that for yourself, the best advice I have is to just start. The closet is always a great place to begin. It’s fast, it’s overstuffed, and you hate half of it anyway.
Once you’ve cleaned out a space, you start to realize more things that don’t fit or are unnecessary. Continue to pare down and reevaluate. It can take months or years, but that liberation is a fire that can blaze a new trail of life.
How has minimalism impacted your life?
Although I loved the feeling of being rid of many of my things years ago, and even more so a year ago, I feel like it’s really opening up a new season of life.
Sure, minimalism brings all these benefits of cost savings, less distraction, and simpler life, but I think it does something else.
I don’t quite have the words yet, but I think it helps me become more available to opportunities. If a really great opportunity comes across my plate, I have the flexibility to take it.
More importantly, it’s changed the way I think. I no longer think working for myself has to be a stressful, cumbersome combination of chance and luck. It’s just living intentionally and learning to keep an open mind.
I want to live a simpler life. Where do I start?
Really, I think you need to start with the resolve of “why” I’m doing what I’m doing. That’s why I think the work of these bloggers/authors is absolutely phenomenal. They focus on the “whys” rather than the “how tos.”
You know how to get rid of things. You know how to sell things and drive to the goodwill.
Sometimes tactics help (I really like zoning off a section and just deciding to go through it), but at the end of the day, just doing something will always trump planning.
Can minimalism help me get out of debt?
Yes. But it’s probably easiest to just start spending less than you make. And sell anything you can.
I hate writing about minimalism too much in this fashion, because I feel like it’s very preacher-y.
Please, the last thing I want to do is tell you how to live your life. If you’re happy with the trajectory and what you own in life, please keep doing it.
We wanted to make a change and getting rid of the crap that keeps us from living intentionally was a great way to do so. It also freed many of our financial obligations and led to opportunities we never would have otherwise experienced.
We know what it’s like to feel stuck and in a rut. We were there. We didn’t like it. We’ve changed. And minimalism was a huge catalyst for that.
Questions? Fire away!